social etiquette

smiling is important.

a wise man once said

"smile & the world smiles with u!"

yet

i think right now due to our society, i say

"dun simply smile cuz u might b smiling at an open invitation to a perv! "

haha..ok..dats lame.

but its true.....u can start smiling to ppl..and then before u knew it..ppl will start stalking u! thos morons! oooh..n how can i forget bout thos ppl who will suddenly go ard telling others that u have a crush on them or worse..u r nutin but a BIMBO! *humphhh*

i am a victim. =(

so much so for smiling.....*sigh*


anyway..i remember once i saw a post on social etiquette. i find it very interesting n nevertheless very amusing n true to a certain degree that u might have been applying the correct or mayb wrong way of SMILING which is undeniably the most important factor when it comes to social thingy. *trying to flash a sweet smile*

according to the social etiquette expert from sg ( forget the name ) we have 5 different smiles that we can chose to use. =)

this 5 smiles in my opinion could determine the degree of friendliness u have with the one u r flashing to..i mean smiles k...pls dun think dirty! xD

therefore ladies n gentle i shall not waste my effort to camwhore! imma share with u the smiles i have! bahahahha......=p

when u meet ppl i mean anywhere..ur facial expression could vary from many many different looks..such as :








*the expressionless look*
















or like this :










*the i-want-to-buy-that-dress-oh-so-much-but-no-size-le look!*













or :









* the bored look*















or :








*the eeeek look*















or :







*the irritated-after-smelling-ppl-de-fart look!*

















and non but no least : the favourite of all time!









*the forced smile*














hmmm.....so now move on to the way recommended by our expert .

the 5 smiles!

#1 : sweet & charming

this smile is the smile that u give ppl when u first met them as a sign of acknowledgement to their existence.










a hint of smile like this with a lil' nod is all we need to show how courteous we are! =)













# 2 the open lips smile

this smile shows an advancing social / a closer relationship u now have with the person.
it is usually done after u get to know one better.







ok..this is not exactly the one..but its smth like this..a prolong smile...without the teeth flashed tho...=)

at this stage, u barely knew this fella so all u wana do is to leave a good impression which i think everybody want to!











#3 the show teeth smile

this is where u reveal ur hard kept clean teeth. err...or in some cases yellowish teeth?? haha...
watever~ its still teeth !





make sure u dun blind ppl with ur smile! haha...xD

say cheese!

















#4 the show teeth sustained

meaning same smile like the above just that it is prolonged...comes with other non-verbal communication like gestures & eye contact to make the person feel warm ! =))

#5 the letting go smile

with this smile..u hide nothing! even the spinach that's stuck in between ur teeth or the missing teeth or lalat also can fly in and bla bla bla~





actually this is not the actual smile...i din manage to get any like that smile..so i chose smth thats pretty close to it..er...u get wat i mean? haha..watever! u r suppose to smile as wide as u can.

p/s : recommended oni when the other party say something reli reli funny. u noe wat i mean! lol












basically,

u practically laugh like mad..but make sure this happens in between the conversation..not lke u stand beside the road & start smilling like dat..one thing that cross ppl's mind is :

SIAO liao.....


in conclusion , i hope u all benefit smth from this post. im just crapping. its purely for u people who r too "wu liao" den decide to drop by to show ur support! thx guys! haha..xD

*SMILE*